My trip to India: Change of plans

Remember that I was super excited that I had booked a trip to India in January? Well, in August I received an e-mail telling me that they were sorry, but my trip was cancelled. They had gotten some cancellations, and therefore couldn’t go through with the planned trip. I could get my money back, or I could get a discound on another trip with the company. One of the options was a trip to India around Christmas or they could recommend a trip to Zansibar.

Now, a trip to Zansibar sounds like an interesting trip, but for me it wasn’t an option. Nor am I able to travel at Christmas time, as I have to work. We’re not many people back at work, so I need to be there.

I replied and said I was only interested in India, and had time off in October 2024, so that was the only time I could go. They then told me they could arrange a trip for me, but then it would be with an English speaking, local guide. I asked how much it would be, and I was told it would be around the same price as I originally paid. I was up for that, and asked if it was possible to choose where to go myself. I was told I could! After a bit back and forth, a plan was made. I also paid a bit extra just to get the flights I wanted, and reserved seats, but I think it’s worth it.

So my new plans is to leave Norway on the 17th, and fly via Helsinki. I’ll be arriving in Delhi super early on the 18th. Someone will come pick me up after customs, bagage claim and all that jazz, and take me to the hotel. I’ll get a rest there, and then my (female) guide will pick me up at the hotel, and we’ll head out for the fist day of sight seeing in Delhi. As per now, I’m supposed to visit Khari Baoli (Spice Market), National Museum, India Gate, and Rashtrapati Bhavan.

On the 19th we will head to Agra, where the main goal of course is to visit the Taj Mahal. We will be leaving Agra the next day already, to visit Jaipur. One of the sights to visit in Jaipur is, of course, Hawa Mahal. From the photos (like the one under) it looks so beautiful!

The 22nd will be spent going back to Delhi, and then get up early the next day to take the train to Rishikesh, located on the river Ghanges in the Indian state Uttarakhand. Rishikesh is considered to be a holy city, and was made famous by The Beatles, who visited back in 1968. I must admit I’ve been dreaming of visiting Rishikesh, so when I found I was able to go, I was absolutely thrilled!

After three days in Rishikesh, we head back to Delhi on the 26th, where I’ll stay the night before flying back to Norway via Helsinki on the 27th.

Needless to say, I’m very excited to go! I might have felt disappointed the short time I thought there might not be a trip to India after all, but not it may very well have turned into something better.

I hope to be able to blog during my trip, so keep an eye on this space for updates!

And orange building with beautiful ornaments.
Hawa Mahal in Jaipur, India
Photo by Dishari De via Pixabay

Perfect read for Samhain!

A little while ago, I was given «The Last Witch in Edinburgh», written by, Marielle Thompson by NetGalley for an honest review, and I finished reading it this morning.

A hand holding an e-reader showing the book The Last Witch in Edinburgh. In the background is a rock covered in red leaves.
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This story is set in alternative Edinburgh in 1824. Nellie Duncan lives with her drunk of a father, and a little brother she’s trying to take care of. Her mother passed away while giving birth, and she’s lost her post as a maid in a rich family’s home after the man of the house couldn’t take his eyes off of her. The lady of the house blames Nellie, and doesn’t just make her leave her post, but also makes sure Nellie doesn’t get a post anywhere else.

She then finds the Rae Women’s Apothecary, where women can come for teas and potions for their problems. It doesn’t take long before Nellie too works at the shop, and is taught the Cailleach.

Being a woman is a dangerous thing, though, and they live in fear that they can be the next victim of the gallows, hanged for witchcraft. Despite of this, Nellie embrace her newfound community, and also develops feelings for the strong and fierce Jean.

Nellie soon learns that the Cailleach has an ancient enemy. A diety that wants to strip the Cailleach for all the power, and wipe out all her witches, and create a world full of patriarchal violence and destruction.

This is a very feminist story, and I must advice you to check out the trigger warnings for it should you need them. I absolutely loved it, and I would love to read more from this author at some point.

Help Melody get well and stay in a forever home

I’m trying to raise money for Melody, so that she can get well and stay on with her current foster parent, Sally.

A small black and white cat sits on a floor. Her foor is a bit shabby, and she looks thin.
Melody after being rescued.
A while ago Sally got a message from a local cat rescue charity that they had collected a stray. They didn’t have space in their rehoming cattery for her, and that the kitten was in the animal hospital. She was severely malnourished and had an eye problem.

The kitten was very scared, but not aggressive, so could Sally please take care of the kitten until there was space in the cattery or until she was well enough to get adopted? Sally is a gem with a heart of gold, and even though she’s in a tough financial situation, she said yes.

The kitten didn’t have a name, but since the first place she hid when Sally brought her home was behind an instrument case, she ended up with the name Melody. She stayed hidden for several hours, but now Melody insists of being near Sally all the time (preferably in her lap).

Due to Sally’s financial situation, she currently don’t have the means to adopt Melody, which is heartbreaking for them both. I ask you kindly to donate to a fund for Melody, so that she can stay with Sally and get well. It would be best for them both if Melody’s forever home ended up being with Sally.

Every penny counts, but if you’re not able to donate any money, please spread the word by sharing the link.

Thank you so much!

Book Review: To Shape a Dragon’s Breath, written by Moniquill Blackgoose

To Shape a Dragon’s Breath, written by Moniquill Blackgoose, was given to me by NetGalley for an honest review. This is the first book in the Nampeshiweisit series, and was first published in May 2023.

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Anequs lives on the island Masquapaug, a remote island where the Anglish conquerors of her land seldom visits. One day she finds a dragon egg. The egg hatches, and the baby dragon bonds with Anequs, and she becomes a Nampeshiweisits (someone who has a special relationship with a dragon). Her people are delighted, as it has been a very long time since the had any dragons or Nampeshiweisits.

Unfortunately, the Anglish has a very different idea of how dragons should be kept and how dragoneers should be schooled, and Anequs is sent to the mainland to attend a school to learn how to shape a dragon’s breath and become a dragoneers.

It is not easy for Anequs to attend an Anglish school. She knows that if she doesn’t manage to meet the Anglish’s requirements, her dragon will be killed. She is determined to learn what she needs to be able to keep her dragon alive.

I absolutely loved this book. Anequs is a strong character, and I fell in love with her. The language was absolutely beautiful, and I adored how lyrical and poetic it was.

I think the book’s themes are important, like basic human rights. In the Anglish world we see things that can easily be taken for granted in a modern Nordic country, like the right to be LGBTQIAP+, being illegal. Just to mention one thing. Things that are still relevant in many parts of the world today. Also, it touches on how we as white Europeans have treated indigenous people. Not just in North America, but also here in Europe.

For me it was a bonus that I am familiar with Nordic myths and lore, as I recognised it in the book. That being said, it is absolutely not a requirement to know them.

It should be noted that To Shape a Dragon’s Breath comes with a few trigger warnings. If you need them, make sure to check them out.

LGBTQIAP+ themed graphic books I recommend

June is actually not that far away, and it’s time for the Queer Lit Readathon. I can’t believe it’s round 13! As usual, this is the readathon I’m most excited about through the year, and I hope I manage to cross off at least some of the squared of the bingo board.

Since I know people might be looking for some recommendations, I’m hoping to find the time to write some blog posts with mine. In this post, I’ll recommend some graphic LGBTQIAP+ graphic books. And to make it really simple, I’m going to use the publisher’s book description.

Us, by Sara Soler

Us is Sara and Diana’s love story, as well as the story of Diana’s gender transition. Full of humor, heartache, and the everyday triumphs and struggles of identity, this graphic memoir speaks to changing conceptions of the world as well as the self, at the same time revealing that some things don’t really have to change.

Written, drawn, and colored by Sara Soler, with English translation by Silvia Perea Labayen and letters by Joamette Gil.

Key words: Memoir, transgender, Spain

The Tea Dragon Society, by K. O’Neill

From the award-winning author of Princess Princess Ever After comes THE TEA DRAGON SOCIETY, the beloved and charming all-ages book that follows the story of Greta, a blacksmith apprentice, and the people she meets as she becomes entwined in the enchanting world of tea dragons. After discovering a lost tea dragon in the marketplace, Greta learns about the dying art form of tea dragon care-taking from the kind tea shop owners, Hesekiel and Erik. As she befriends them and their shy ward, Minette, Greta sees how the craft enriches their lives—and eventually her own.

Key words: Magic, MtM, disability

Coming Back, by Jessi Zabarsky

Preet is magic.

Valissa is not.

Everyone in their village has magic in their bones, and Preet is the strongest of them all. Without any power of her own, how can Valissa ever be worthy of Preet’s love? When their home is attacked, Valissa has a chance to prove herself, but that means leaving Preet behind. On her own for the first time, Preet breaks the village’s most sacred laws and is rejected from the only home she’s ever known and sent into a new world.

Divided by different paths, insecurities, and distance, will Valissa and Preet be able to find their way back to each other?

Key words: Magic, sapphic

Heartstopper, by Alice Oseman
Vol. 1 – 5

Charlie and Nick are at the same school, but they’ve never met … until one day when they’re made to sit together. They quickly become friends, and soon Charlie is falling hard for Nick, even though he doesn’t think he has a chance.

But love works in surprising ways, and Nick is more interested in Charlie than either of them realised.

Key words: MtM, The UK

Cheer Up!: Love and Pompoms, by Crystal Frasier
Illustrated by Val Wise / Letterer Oscar O. Jupiter

Annie is a smart, antisocial lesbian starting her senior year of high school who’s under pressure to join the cheerleader squad to make friends and round out her college applications. Her former friend Bebe is a people-pleaser—a trans girl who must keep her parents happy with her grades and social life to keep their support of her transition. Through the rigors of squad training and amped up social pressures (not to mention micro aggressions and other queer youth problems), the two girls rekindle a friendship they thought they’d lost and discover there may be other, sweeter feelings springing up between them.

Key words: Transgender, sapphic, USA

Gender Queer: A Memoir, by Maia Kobabe

In 2014, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, thought that a comic of reading statistics would be the last autobiographical comic e would ever write. At the time, it was the only thing e felt comfortable with strangers knowing about em. Now, Gender Queer is here. Maia’s intensely cathartic autobiography charts eir journey of self-identity, which includes the mortification and confusion of adolescent crushes, grappling with how to come out to family and society, bonding with friends over erotic gay fanfiction, and facing the trauma and fundamental violation of pap smears.

Started as a way to explain to eir family what it means to be nonbinary and asexual, Gender Queer is more than a personal story: it is a useful and touching guide on gender identity—what it means and how to think about it—for advocates, friends, and humans everywhere.

Key words: Non-binary, ace, memoir, the US

Paper Planes, by Jennie Wood
Illustrated by Dozerdraws

Former best friends Dylan Render and Leighton Worthington attempt to successfully navigate their way through a summer camp for troubled youth. They both need a good evaluation at the camp. Otherwise, they’ll be sent away, unable to attend high school with their friends. While participating in camp activities and chores, Dylan and Leighton rexamine the events that led up to the incident that sent them to camp, the incident that threatens their futures and their friendship with each other.

Key words: Ace, non-binary, the US

Bloom, by Kevin Panetta
Illustrated by Savanna Ganucheau

Now that high school is over, Ari is dying to move to the big city with his ultra-hip band—if he can just persuade his dad to let him quit his job at their struggling family bakery. Though he loved working there as a kid, Ari cannot fathom a life wasting away over rising dough and hot ovens. But while interviewing candidates for his replacement, Ari meets Hector, an easygoing guy who loves baking as much as Ari wants to escape it. As they become closer over batches of bread, love is ready to bloom . . . that is, if Ari doesn’t ruin everything.

Key words: MtM, the US

Mooncakes, by Suzanne Walker
Illustrated by Wendy Xu

A story of love and demons, family and witchcraft. Nova Huang knows more about magic than your average teen witch. She works at her grandmothers’ bookshop, where she helps them loan out spell books and investigate any supernatural occurrences in their New England town. One fateful night, she follows reports of a white wolf into the woods, and she comes across the unexpected: her childhood crush, Tam Lang, battling a horse demon in the woods. As a werewolf, Tam has been wandering from place to place for years, unable to call any townhome. Pursued by dark forces eager to claim the magic of wolves and out of options, Tam turns to Nova for help. Their latent feelings are rekindled against the backdrop of witchcraft, untested magic, occult rituals, and family ties both new and old in this enchanting tale of self-discovery.

Key words: Non-binary, disability, magic, the US

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I was gifted tomato plants

So a week ago, I was out weeding my flower beds in the front of the house, and as I went to get a bag for the weeds in the garage, I ran into one of our neighbours. She was kind enough to offer me a couple of tomato plants, and of course I accepted. It only took a couple of minutes to go inside and get two plants for me, ant they are currently growing in my windowsill, waiting to be big enough to be re-potted.

Two green tomato plants in front of a window.
21 April 2024
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The tomato plants are of the type Tiny Tim, a sort of cocktail tomatoes. The plants normally doesn’t get more than maybe half a meter high. I must admit I first thought about having them outside in the garden, but after reading about them, I think they’ll be better off on the balcony.

This year I’m very behind on growing anything, so I’m hoping maybe next year, I’ll be able to sow more stuff. I really need to read and learn more about it. This year I need to focus on what’s already there, though, as well as renovating the room I’m making into a library…

Spring flowers in my flower bed

The day before the first snow arrived in late October last year, I planted some bulbs that I had actually bought on sale. I didn’t really pay much attention to what types they were (it was a mix), and I didn’t really know how well it would work, knowing I had bought them on sale, and planing them so late. To my delight, in early March I could see the first flowers peek up.

A few green plants coming up from the dirt.
6 March 2024
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It was the tulips and crocus that first seemed to grow, and I can’t deny I was excited.

A few green plants in a flowerbed, bu no blooms.
13 March 2024
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Before long, I could see even more leaves growing in my flower bed, and I loved the purple crocuses!

Flowerbed with some crocuses, as well as the leaves of tulips and other plants.
29 March 2024
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Unfortunately, we had a new snowfall on 4 and 5 April, and that was something the crocuses didn’t quite like. They looked a bit sad when I got home after spending the following weekend in Oslo. Also, some deer had decided that my tulips were so delicious, so they had munched on them. To be fair, though, they don’t know any better, and I don’t mind it that much. Deer are cute, and now I know there’s not really any point in planting tulips.

A week after the snowfall other flowers decided to bloom, and there were some cute daffodils and some wood squills.

A flower bed with miscellaneous bulb flowers, some blooming.
12 April 2024
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As we moved into this house in August 2023, I don’t really know what will pop up in my flowerbed. I am excited to see what I have, and to plant some new bulbs come autumn.

Reading Vlog for Mid Month Book Bash, January 2024

For the fist Mid Month Book Bash of 2024, I read the book Skogen : om trær folk og 25 000 andre arter, by Anne Sverdrup-Thygeson. The Mid Month Book Bash (MMBB for short) takes place Friday to Monday the second weekend of the month, and was started by Doris from all D books on YouTube. The purpose for MMBB is to get the reading going, end even though I don’t feel like I really need it, it’s fun to take part. Here’s my MMBB vlog for January 2024: